tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29202314898212689102024-03-13T23:13:01.047-04:00Cort's StoriesIf I don't get this crap out of my head occasionally, it will implode.Corthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08194555939051524751noreply@blogger.comBlogger21125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920231489821268910.post-48958346227181605412011-12-10T23:16:00.002-05:002011-12-10T23:22:14.600-05:00Shrieking Metal and Gaurdian Stars<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-BMBOcTDNdIQ/TuQtxv2SuxI/AAAAAAAAAFI/0S5YbivkPU0/s1600/crash.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="256" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-BMBOcTDNdIQ/TuQtxv2SuxI/AAAAAAAAAFI/0S5YbivkPU0/s320/crash.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br />
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In late September, I totaled my husband's pickup truck by sliding off the road and hitting a tree. I don't think I've ever experienced anything as scary as that in my entire life. I was driving around a curve in the road when I came upon a stopped school bus. It was the end of the school day and children were getting off to head home. I hit the brakes, but because my feet were wet from walking through a puddle earlier (it had been raining), my foot slipped of the pedal. I hit them again, a bit too hard, and everything locked up. Instinct took over and the wheel turned to the right, towards the woods, instead of towards the young girl crossing the road to my left. <br />
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You know how they say your life flashes before your eyes? Well, it kind of does. The image of my children burned bright as the truck spun around and slid closer to the tree. I remember screaming and closing my eyes just before the impact. My last thought was of the baby I'd just had, not even two full months earlier. It just wasn't fair.<br />
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I still don't know which sound was worse; the metal shrieking as the driver side door wrapped around the tree, or the glass shattering as both the driver side window and windshield popped. Even now, 2 months later, I still feel sick to my stomach when I think about it. Nightmares are a nightly occurrence.<br />
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I have yet to find a doctor that is willing to help find a medicine to control my anxiety attacks. I have a hard time driving, and even normal everyday stuff has me second guessing myself. I know I can't live my life in fear, but it's so hard to come to terms with the fact that I have no control over any of it. I almost lost my husband and my babies. Well, they almost lost me, and everyday I do everything in my power to make sure nothing will put us in that spot again.<br />
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As I sit here, 3 days before my oldest daughter's 10th birthday, I'm still not sure what happened. I know something, or someone, other than myself took control of the situation that day in September. I've never really been sure about whether or not I believe in God, but I can admit that it wasn't me that kept the truck from hitting the young girl crossing the road. And something, or someone, allowed me to come home to my family.<br />
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I may have been banged up pretty good, but it was nothing compared to what <i>could </i>have happened. I'm just so thankful, every day, to be here to see the faces of the ones I cherish and the ones I would walk through fire for. I guess my guardian star was watching me that day.Corthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08194555939051524751noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920231489821268910.post-9041798666829180412011-09-17T14:57:00.000-04:002011-09-17T14:57:37.891-04:00Oh my, Where has the time gone?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div>If you haven't noticed yet, I don't get much time to post here. I think about it a lot, and I keep a journal to jot stuff down in when I feel like posting, but it never makes it to the actual blog. Now that I get to play housewife and stay at home mom for the next year, I might have some more time on my hands. Maybe.<br />
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To start with, here's a picture of our newest addition:<br />
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Rex Eachann Brown was born on Aug. 5th at 11:16 am. He weighed in at 9 lbs 6 oz. and was 22 inches long.<br />
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He's a little over a month old now and is starting to recognize his momma and daddy. We're still big 'ol blurs at this point, but he can tell which one of us is closest to him. Especially when it's me. I swear he can smell me anytime I'm near because he'll start suckin' on his pacifier like he's about to starve :-)<br />
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I can't tell you how many "rejects" I snapped before I got one of all three of my children looking towards the camera: <br />
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Every few months or so, I seem to have some sort of emotional breakdown. It generally builds up over time and then I'm left trying to figure out what the hell just hit me. Today, for instance, is one of those days. My husband is a hunter. I hunt occasionally, when I can get out, or when I'm not pregnant (which is never going to be the case, or so it seems).<br />
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The reason I mention my husband's love for hunting, is that he goes out nearly every day. Sometimes only for an hour, sometimes a few hours. And occasionally, most of the day. I generally don't have a problem with his hobby, given the fact that it fills our freezer up with fresh meat (meat that I don't have to pay an arm and leg for).<br />
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However, I envy his time alone, doing what he enjoys. I often wish I could get out of the house by myself and do whatever it is that I want, but that is not the case. If I want to go do something, I have to take the baby with me. My only alone time is spent grocery shopping, or running errands. Now, don't get me wrong, I love our little girl. She is a huge bright spot in my life, along with her sister. But, I need some <i>me</i> time.<br />
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My husband, on the other hand, doesn't see it that way. I wish he understood. I really do. On days like today when I wish I could just get out of the house and go to the library, call up a friend and go out for a bit. Or even just go to a park and watch the birds. Something that doesn't involve taking care of anyone else<i>. </i><br />
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The other thing that seems to get to me, is the fact that we don't do much. We are at home all the time. Granted, we live in a very small town, and don't have much spending money. It still gets to me though. I'm even cool with having a trip to Wal-Mart as quality time. Trouble is, when I suggest it, I hear "Take the baby with you, I was gonna go huntin'." Sigh.<br />
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It's times like these that I wish we lived closer to our families. I know, on any given day, there would be someone willing to take a ride with me, or just come and hang out. Lack of visitors is another one of my ongoing issues...I'll spare you the complaints, so no worries.Corthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08194555939051524751noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920231489821268910.post-35456670171068302342011-01-17T19:41:00.000-05:002011-01-17T19:41:16.691-05:00Life keeps getting in the way...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/TTTggnsZgSI/AAAAAAAAAEs/VcgfEzL792E/s1600/Cortney-1-34.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="213" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/TTTggnsZgSI/AAAAAAAAAEs/VcgfEzL792E/s320/Cortney-1-34.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br />
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When I started this blog, I thought I would have so much more time to add to it. I often need to get something off my chest, or just talk to someone about something, so this blog seemed like the perfect opportunity to do so. So far, I am failing miserably. In my defense, though, it's been incredibly busy since my last post.<br />
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I decided to go back to school to get my license in Practical Nursing. Classes have been super fun so far and I'm looking forward to being able to apply to the nursing program next Spring. Why next Spring, you ask? Well, technically, after I finish this quarter and the next one, I would be eligible to apply to the program this coming Fall. <br />
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However, since my last post, my husband and I have been successful in creating another baby. So, since the baby is due in Aug. (and my school is switching to semesters instead of quarters in the Fall) I'll need to take a few months off and raise a yougin'. That means the next opportunity to apply for the program would be in the Spring.<br />
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Am I excited about the 'bun in the oven'? Oh yes, very much so. Nervous? YOU BET. Emily will be 10 months old this month and I'm <i>still</i> getting used to having a baby in the house. And soon there will be two of them!! Naturally, we'd like to have a boy. But, considering all the problems we had with Emily's pregnancy, I'll be pleased either way, just as long as we're both healthy and make it through ok.<br />
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On top of school and the new baby coming, we've been looking for a house to buy. What a pain! Fortunately, we both want the same type of house, so it's just a matter of finding it. We've found a few like it, but they're so far away from where we currently live. That also means they're nowhere close to the only friend I have in this town. I'll have to start all over again. Ugh.<br />
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I'm hoping to be able to update this a bit more often than I have been. But, forgive me if life gets in the way again. It tends to happen a lot around here.Corthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08194555939051524751noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920231489821268910.post-25619085632577698592010-10-11T09:11:00.001-04:002010-10-11T09:30:16.091-04:00We might be a little bit crazy...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/TLMRVwGRHiI/AAAAAAAAAEk/Cxc8QML6MTE/s1600/kids.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/TLMRVwGRHiI/AAAAAAAAAEk/Cxc8QML6MTE/s320/kids.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/TLMM4s2SaQI/AAAAAAAAAEg/bInwj1n6Iic/s1600/ribbit.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><br />
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Less than halfway through the pregnancy, I was placed on the "high risk" list. I had to become more aware of everything I was doing, eating and so on. Ultrasounds were done at every visit by this point.<br />
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When test results came back positive for <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Trisomy_18">Trisomy 18</a> (Edward's syndrome), we made a trip to Augusta, GA to see a Perinatal specialist and have an <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Amniocentesis">amniocentesis</a> done. After a mind numbing week of waiting, the results came back crystal clear: our baby was perfectly fine.<br />
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Labor was mostly uneventful, until a second does of Stadol caused the baby's heart rate to drastically spike and then drop. During delivery, it was discovered that the umbilical cord had been wrapped around her neck. <i>Twice.</i><br />
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Despite all of the crazy things we've been through, we're ready to do it again. (I think)<br />
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We might be a little bit crazy, but we are officially trying for another baby. We have decided that now is a much better time to do it, rather than waiting until I am finished with school. Not to mention, with all of the problems we had before, we want to do it before it's too late.<br />
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So, here's to hoping that we're not getting into anything too far over our heads. Wish us lock and think <b>BLUE </b>thoughts!Corthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08194555939051524751noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920231489821268910.post-50175203067393195602010-10-10T18:41:00.000-04:002010-10-10T18:41:53.028-04:00It doesn't hurt anymore<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/TLJBDzaLfLI/AAAAAAAAAEc/ZyPoh7Potyc/s1600/Flowers.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/TLJBDzaLfLI/AAAAAAAAAEc/ZyPoh7Potyc/s320/Flowers.jpg" width="293" /></a></div>Seven years ago (today), I had a D&C to remove the baby boy I'd lost. The pregnancy had come as a major surprise, but was amazing, nonetheless. I was around 15 weeks pregnant and had started spotting around lunch time. I called my doc and was told to take it easy for a day or two and if things changed, to give him another call.<br />
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By that night, the bleeding was much worse. A second call to my doc resulted in a trip to the Emergency Room. As I waited for the ER doc to come back into the room to tell me what was happening, I stared at the clock. It seemed like hours before he finally walked through the door. The look on his face told me it was bad news. He explained to me that I was having a miscarriage. Not that I had had one, but was <i>having</i> one. It was not yet completed. I begged him to do something to stop it, to make things better. According to him, there was nothing to be done and it would be a few hours before it would finally be complete.<br />
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He spent the next several minutes reassuring me that this was not my fault, that things like this happen all the time and I should understand that my body had a way of knowing that it was not ready to go through birth again. I went home that night and cried for hours. Naturally, I did not sleep a bit. I was losing my baby. He wasn't gone yet, but as I lay in bed, he was dying. And there wasn't a damn thing I could do to stop it.<br />
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Two days later, I walked back into the ER for the D&C that had been scheduled during my conversation with the ER doc. My mother was with me as I checked in and stayed with me until they took me to the Operating Room. The procedure, I am told, went just as expected. Recovery would be minimal, a day in bed, then light duty the next day.<br />
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As I lay in the bed, just after surgery, I felt empty. He was gone. They had taken him from me. For a moment, I thought I heard someone else in the room with me. It sounded like someone told me "He's ok now, you don't have to worry". I looked around, but never saw anyone. I closed my eyes and cried.<br />
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Since then, this day has been a painful one for me. Until this year, that is. Today, I feel no pain. As I watch my two little girls laughing and playing together, I realize that I have something a lot of people wish they had. I now know, that I wasn't ready for another baby seven years ago. <br />
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So even though I remember the pain losing Joshua caused, it doesn't hurt anymore.Corthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08194555939051524751noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920231489821268910.post-33939436290027615822010-10-08T21:10:00.000-04:002010-10-08T21:10:02.127-04:00Product Review- Klever KonceptI'm not sure I'll do this too often, but I had the opportunity to review a new product, so I jumped on it. Here are my thoughts. You can let me know in the comments if this makes me too much of a sell-out or not :-) <br />
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The other day, while I was catching up on my outdoorsy type news on a hunting site I post in regularly, I was contacted by another one of the forum members. He designed a handy new product and wanted to know if I'd be interested in trying it out. I asked him for some more info and he told me it's a new design on an old, commonly used product. Seeing as how I'm not your average girl (I hunt, fish and do all sorts of not very girly things) I decided to help him out.<br />
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The product is called Klever Koncept, and it's a safer version of a box cutter. He offered to send me one, free of charge, in exchange for spreading the word. If I liked it, of course. <br />
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I received the Klever Koncept in the mail this afternoon, and have already used it a few times. It's a very handy tool, indeed. Normally, I have my pocket knife on me at all times, but just to make sure I wouldn't reach for it out of habit, I stuck it in my purse. I want to make sure this little tool can do all it claims to be able to do. So far, it does.<br />
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It's pretty light, so you don't have to worry about balancing an awkward amount of weight in your hand while using a sharp blade. There are safety edges on the blades as well, to help protect your fingers (and anything else that could end up in the blade's way!) True story: many years ago, while slicing open some moving boxes, I ran a box cutter through some tape (going towards my leg instead of away from it) and wouldn't you know it, the darn thing slid right off the edge of the box and right into my thigh! Man that hurt. It also happens, that I was wearing my favorite pair of jeans...<br />
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They're very inexpensive and so far, a great tool to have on hand. You can check them out <a href="http://www.kleversales.com/">here</a>. Thanks guys, for sending me this neat Klever Koncept! Now I don't have to worry about ruining any more jeans, or you know, cutting myself!Corthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08194555939051524751noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920231489821268910.post-78112794502667914652010-10-04T10:13:00.001-04:002011-09-17T16:14:18.649-04:00Recovery<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/TKngGDP_zRI/AAAAAAAAAEU/8PdMd92FXxY/s1600/ouch.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/TKngGDP_zRI/AAAAAAAAAEU/8PdMd92FXxY/s320/ouch.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>On Tuesday, Sept. 28th, I had surgery on my ear. This is what my head looked like after the surgery. Fortunately, they took the bandages off the day after. It was a rough night. <br />
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The technical term for the procedure is <a href="http://www.taylorwrites.com/samples/Tympanoplasty&Mastoidectomy.pdf">Tympanoplasty with Mastoidectomy</a>. What does that mean, you ask? They replaced my eardrum (<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tympanoplasty">tympanoplasty</a>) and removed a small cyst from my ear canal (<a href="http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&cd=3&ved=0CDYQFjAC&url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.surgeryencyclopedia.com%2FLa-Pa%2FMastoidectomy.html&rct=j&q=mastoidectomy&ei=Tf90TsqOHoaFtgeI5MDODA&usg=AFQjCNHQqFzp1NFl5AaQG9jsndsTAsTWDw&sig2=hto-PW86TLhybvvIk4Q5VQ&cad=rja">mastoidectomy</a>). The end result is supposed to be amazing. I say 'supposed to be' because we are still a while away from the actual result. It's going to take a few weeks for everything to completely heal up. And at least 2 months before I regain all the feeling in my ear. <br />
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The surgeon, according to my husband, seemed a bit surprised when he actually got into my ear. He had noticed the scar tissue from the previous surgery (did I tell you that I've had this done before? I have. It didn't work.) on prior visits to his office, but did not realize there was <i>so</i> much of it. Because of this, he had to remove a lot more tissue than planned, but it was all taken care of.<br />
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The doctor is an expert at what he does. He's won awards and patients fly in from all over the country to see him. He's good. He's <i>so</i> good, that they invite him to speak and teach at conferences all over the country as well. Because of this, every patient ends up being "research". He takes pictures of the entire procedure, and makes sure you have copies when everything is said and done. Yep, I have copies of the bloody mess inside of my ear. Yuck. Before you decide not to finish reading, I won't be posting them. They're yucky.<br />
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So far, the week after the surgery has been a painful one. I expected as much. What I didn't expect, though, was for the antibiotics to make me so dizzy and sick. After calling the doc, I was assured that it was normal, he prescribed some pretty heavy medicines to make sure we don't run into any infections. At least I have some pretty strong painkillers to help me deal with the pain, I would be a complete mess without them.<br />
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I have already noticed an increase in my hearing on that side. It's amazing. Annoying too. I'm not used to everything being <i>so loud</i>. I hope that changes soon. By the end of the night, I'm going on noise overload and want to cry.<br />
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Also, I start school tonight. I really want to wear my hair down to cover my freaky looking ear, but I hate when it hangs down in my face. So I suppose I'll just point it out and explain the situation real quick so everyone can have their stares and be done with it. It'll make for a less awkward few hours in class.<br />
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Wish me luck!Corthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08194555939051524751noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920231489821268910.post-80923922680815669072010-09-23T13:08:00.001-04:002010-09-23T13:14:50.169-04:00SurgeryOn Monday, August 27th, I have to check in at the hospital in Augusta, GA for my surgery Tuesday morning. I will be there through Wednesday, the 29th. I've had problems with my right ear for many, many years and I'm finally going to have it taken care of. And I'm nervous as all get out. It's a fairly routine procedure, according to the doctor I met with last week. He assured me that he's done thousands of these operations and could do them with his eyes closed (hope he doesn't start with me!).<br />
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Surgery, in itself, tends to make me more uptight than it used to. I have children to look after now. What if something happens during the procedure? Am I going to be able to take care of them? Am I going to be <i>around</i> to take care of them? All of this flashes through my brain every second of every day leading up to the surgery.<br />
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My husband, is constantly trying to get me to "chill out" about the whole thing, but it's hard. I have dealt with so much pain and general crap associated with having a hole in my eardrum, that I'm almost used to it. And, in a way, I might be willing to deal with it if it means not having to have parts of my head cut open. That sounds kinda silly, but that's how terrified I am. <br />
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The recovery process, according to the doc, is around 4 days. Much shorter than my previous encounter with this type of surgery. I was laid out for close to a month then. I can deal with a few days. I sure hope Rob can. I won't be able to do much more than look pitiful and moan about how I wish I had never agreed to the whole thing, so he'll be in charge of raisin' the babies during that time. It should be interesting, to say the least.<br />
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The one thing that has me super excited about this procedure, as well as the expected outcome, is the fact that one day- I might <i>finally </i>be able to see things like this:<br />
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<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/TJDaU_rTFmI/AAAAAAAAAD8/wkf1J38zvJw/s1600/022.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/TJDaU_rTFmI/AAAAAAAAAD8/wkf1J38zvJw/s320/022.JPG" /></a></div>Corthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08194555939051524751noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920231489821268910.post-73808351000486897392010-08-18T22:30:00.002-04:002010-08-18T22:32:45.773-04:00It's been a LONG week...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/TGyXGU11QmI/AAAAAAAAADk/2DUqCKadBaA/s1600/aww.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/TGyXGU11QmI/AAAAAAAAADk/2DUqCKadBaA/s320/aww.jpg" /></a></div>So, my husband has been out of town since Sunday afternoon. He'll be home tomorrow (Thurs) thank God. Since he has been gone, everything that <i>could</i> happen, <i>has</i> happened. <br />
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I have a bad habit of letting my imagination get carried away (burglars and murderers and stuff) and usually end up not sleeping the entire time he's gone. By the third day, I'm so wound up, I end up crying every time the baby does. Even with my gun and the dogs in the house for added protection, I <i>still</i> end up a major wreck.<br />
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Last night was the first night I actually got some sleep. It was only because I missed so much the first few nights. I'm exhausted tonight, but there's a massive storm hitting us right now and all I can think about are the dead pine trees surrounding the house. No, I'm not just paranoid...we lost 28 during a recent storm. Several of those blocked the driveway and took a few hours to clear up. It was a mess. So now I'm worried about something hitting the house. *sigh* I just want my husband to come home...<br />
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In addition to all the crap that's been happening. I've neglected the school work I was supposed to do while I was at home this week. I just haven't had any time. The baby is teething and it's been pure hell. Nap time is non-existent these days. At the end of the night, when everyone is in bed, the last thing on my mind is school work. I'm usually trying to decompress from the day's activities. <br />
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As I type this, the dogs are whining because of the thunder, my 8 year old is trying to convince me that she can sleep with her lights and TV on (she doesn't like storms either) and the baby just woke up. AGAIN. <br />
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Have I mentioned that I can't wait for my husband to get home? *sigh*Corthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08194555939051524751noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920231489821268910.post-754778587754472012010-07-26T17:10:00.004-04:002010-07-26T17:35:02.716-04:00Going back to school. I think.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/TE3_IG3xK6I/AAAAAAAAADc/Hx4ApMQg2Qw/s1600/pretty.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 239px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/TE3_IG3xK6I/AAAAAAAAADc/Hx4ApMQg2Qw/s320/pretty.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5498331234837801890" /></a><br />Well, I did it. I took the first step in going back to school today. It wasn't easy, mostly because it required getting up before dawn, but it's been done. I took a placement test of sorts today, to see how stupid I've become in the 10 years that I've been out of school. I'm almost afraid to go back tomorrow to get my results. Why, you ask? (*sigh*) I'm almost ashamed to admit it, but I put my first name in the "Last Name" box and the teacher handed the form back to me to be fixed. <br /><br />The rest of the time in the classroom went by slowly. This, of course, was due to the 500 question test in front of me. Broken down in parts, and each part timed. I finished the first section pretty fast and had time to look around. A few other people my age smiled back at me. A much older woman was struggling with her answers and kept tugging on a bit of hair hanging from her ponytail. <br /><br />Moving on to the math section, the knot in my stomach turned into a fierce sinkhole. I was never very good at math and had a hard time just reading the questions. We were given 50 minutes to answer 40 questions. Along side my answer booklet were 3 sheets of scrap paper. I immediately knew this would not be enough scrap paper. I was right. I was only halfway through the questions when the timer went off. Man, I suck at math.<br /><br />I was able to finish the rest of the categories quickly enough to go back to the math test and complete (attempt to understand the weirdness on the page is more like it) the other half. I'm pretty sure I'm going to need some extra help with my math type studies. <br /><br />I have to go back in the morning to get my test scores and find out which classes I'll need to take in order to do well on my entrance exam. <br /><br />What? I forgot to mention what I'm going back to school for? Sorry. I'm interested in becoming an LPN. It's a good starting point and it's only a 2 year degree. I can add to it if I decide to continue with school after my time is up. Or perhaps, after I work for a while.<br /><br />Wish me luck. I'm going to need it. Oh, tomorrow is my first wedding anniversary. And I have to spend a few hours in a classroom, then take my 4 month old daughter to the doctor to get routine vaccinations. Yay! <br /><br />**The picture at the top of the post was taken the morning after my husband proposed to me. We were camping in the mountains and got up super early to go fishing. It was a gorgeous day.Corthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08194555939051524751noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920231489821268910.post-39325678209524509092010-07-04T13:33:00.001-04:002010-08-19T10:21:17.535-04:00Dear Mr. & Mrs. Allen (aka: the old people two houses down)<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/TDDGO5m2BLI/AAAAAAAAADM/cFPqosz_RPc/s1600/fireworks.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5490105905048847538" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/TDDGO5m2BLI/AAAAAAAAADM/cFPqosz_RPc/s320/fireworks.jpg" style="cursor: pointer; display: block; height: 320px; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; width: 242px;" /></a><br />
Dear Mr. & Mrs. Allen,<br />
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First, I would like to say that your fireworks display last night was beautiful. Absolutely stunning. That being said, lets move on to the real issue.<br />
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I know we live out in the middle of nowhere, and I am aware that it is, indeed, the 4<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">th</span> of July (America! Hooray!). But it would have been most kind of you to give us some sort of notice before setting off such an amazing display at midnight. When I heard the first boom, I assumed- as I'm sure most of the people in our usually quiet neighborhood did, that it was a single, celebratory spark to announce the anniversary of our independence. <br />
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Little did I know, that it would continue on until around 1:30 am. Had I been aware that this event was to occur, I wouldn't have tucked my sweet little 3 month old daughter into bed. I would also have let the dog come into the house so that he would not, in a frenzy of sheer terror, break the cable that keeps him safely put in our yard and end up trying to scratch our front door open. You see, that poor dog (in said frenzy) had no idea that the great terror in the sky was harmless. To him, it was some big, giant, noisy monster, trying to kill him.<br />
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I would also like to bring attention to the other dog that was already in the house and was now barking like a wild banshee. She, being the good little guard dog she is, was alerting us to the demons that were attempting to take down Earth. Those poor dogs...<br />
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It wasn't a total drag, however...I managed to see a shooting star in between colorful showers of ash and silently made a wish. I wished for you and your guests to grow tired and go to bed. You did, after another 30 minute round of blasts.<br />
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Thank you so much, again, for keeping us up all night. Tonight, we will be ready for the noise. And, perhaps, we will get to enjoy the show without being so aggravated.<br />
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Sincerely,<br />
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Cortney BCorthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08194555939051524751noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920231489821268910.post-16377690499735174212010-04-07T18:24:00.000-04:002010-04-07T18:30:27.685-04:00Emily Gift Brown<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/S70HXkacE9I/AAAAAAAAADE/QvU61eh01Dk/s1600/closeup.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/S70HXkacE9I/AAAAAAAAADE/QvU61eh01Dk/s320/closeup.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5457526424935863250" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/S70HXQ7SGII/AAAAAAAAAC8/e3-6Ghw64Ig/s1600/008.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/S70HXQ7SGII/AAAAAAAAAC8/e3-6Ghw64Ig/s320/008.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5457526419704912002" border="0" /></a><br />Born on March 26th 2010 at 3:06pm. 8 lbs 13 oz. 22 inches long.Corthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08194555939051524751noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920231489821268910.post-48306998217554428102010-03-26T05:29:00.000-04:002010-03-26T05:41:53.291-04:00Becoming a mother for the second time<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/S6yBSgHCujI/AAAAAAAAAC0/b6H_6xKWsz0/s1600/BigBelly.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/S6yBSgHCujI/AAAAAAAAAC0/b6H_6xKWsz0/s320/BigBelly.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5452875403695929906" border="0" /></a><br />September 12, 2009...been a long time since the last post. A LOT has happened since then. Mostly issues with the pregnancy. There were a lot of health scares and we almost had to make a very serious decision regarding the life of our child. Fortunately, everything came out just fine and we were able to continue on with the pregnancy. It's been stressful, but a blessing at the same time.<br /><br />As I sit here, I am about an hour away from being induced. My little one has decided that she'd rather stay inside where it's nice and warm. She's 4 days late today, so my doctor decided to have some mercy on me. It's going to be a long hard day, but I feel a little more comfortable knowing that it'll all happen in a very controlled situation.<br /><br />I'm terrified of becoming a mother for the second time. I haven't told many people. Their immediate reaction to any comment I make is "But you've done it before, you'll be ok!". Maybe I will, but it's still scary as hell. It's been a long time since I've done this. And to be honest...that's not the part that scares me. Being responsible for another life is. For the last 8 years, I've been responsible for myself and my daughter. Now there will be one more.<br /><br />It's a terrifying thing and I know the road ahead will be a challenging one. I can only hope to make it to the end in one piece. Wish me luck...Corthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08194555939051524751noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920231489821268910.post-10750664342625727002009-09-12T18:50:00.001-04:002009-09-28T22:12:55.235-04:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/SqwoSWGfvnI/AAAAAAAAACI/p9JOLybj_Rw/s1600-h/Image026.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/SqwoSWGfvnI/AAAAAAAAACI/p9JOLybj_Rw/s320/Image026.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5380719950436482674" border="0" /></a><br />It's been a while since I posted last...my sincere apologies. Things got a little crazy around here. To begin with, I'm almost 13 weeks pregnant and newly married. Trying to get used to using the last name and double checking to make sure everything has been changed. Feels like I've been trying to keep my footing in a whirlwind!<br /><br />This is my second child and I'm finding out that every pregnancy really <span style="font-style: italic;">is </span>different. This one is kicking my butt! I don't remember being so tired when I was growing Hayley. There are times I actually feel like I'm narcoleptic. It's just nuts. I'm hoping once I get out of the first trimester I'll regain my energy and want to start moving around again. I'm sick and tired of just being a lazy ass.<br /><br />I'm also tired of hearing people tell me that I should just get up and move around (even though I know they mean well). That once I do, I'll feel better. I'm sure you're right, it might help a bit...but the trouble is, I don't feel like moving. I just want to sit here and do nothing. I'm perfectly content doing just that. I've managed to go outside on the cooler days and sit for a little while and it helps a great deal. Still, if I don't do anything all day, please don't throw it in my face. I'm growing a child. It takes a lot of work (even if you can't see anything happening).<br /><br />I'm also very aware that I need to eat more, and more often. So you can keep that to yourselves too. I'm sure some of you can understand, but for those of you that don't....you can't just eat anything if you've got a craving for something in particular. It's just not gonna happen. There is no substitute at all for whatever it is I want at that exact moment :-)<br /><br />Gonna go have some black beans and rice with sour cream on top now! Later!Corthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08194555939051524751noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920231489821268910.post-2694680041521184592009-06-02T21:08:00.000-04:002009-06-02T21:14:06.122-04:00Time to call the exterminators...<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/SiXORvKwI0I/AAAAAAAAAA8/VCDDPSvtTFg/s1600-h/418.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5342903337059623746" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/SiXORvKwI0I/AAAAAAAAAA8/VCDDPSvtTFg/s320/418.JPG" border="0" /></a><br /><div><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/SiXORTAActI/AAAAAAAAAA0/Ed2wa09GQDY/s1600-h/417.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5342903329498362578" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 240px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/SiXORTAActI/AAAAAAAAAA0/Ed2wa09GQDY/s320/417.JPG" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><div>This dude just crawled out of the fireplace. Guess it's that time of year again. Kind of terrifying now that we have a puppy running around. Silly dog likes to bite anything that moves! It was only about an inch and a half big, but it's plenty big as far as I'm concerned!</div><br /><br /><div></div></div>Corthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08194555939051524751noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920231489821268910.post-15780326308981952722009-05-25T20:52:00.000-04:002009-05-25T22:29:40.622-04:00In a room full of people...<a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/ShtHSTgv1BI/AAAAAAAAAAs/Ky0TeGEPRKA/s1600-h/198.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5339940162978698258" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 240px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/ShtHSTgv1BI/AAAAAAAAAAs/Ky0TeGEPRKA/s320/198.JPG" border="0" /></a><br /><div>At any given time of the day, I am surrounded by people. My family, people in the grocery store, my bosses and so on. I can carry on a conversation with most everyone I encounter, but when it comes down to it, at the end of the day- I feel empty and alone. </div><div><br /></div><div>I find it hard to fight back the tears as I sit on the sofa, alone, night after night. My house isn't empty, but I have no one to talk to. I hear sounds coming from the other room, but nobody will sit with me and hold my hand. Nobody takes the time to ask me how I am, or why I am crying. Nobody notices that I am, in fact, crying. </div><div><br /></div><div>I live in a household where I am the caregiver. I am the maid as well as the cook. I am the launderer and the keeper of all things. I am the cleaner of the "ew, the puppy pooped on the floor again!". There was a time when I was a best friend and a lover. Those days are quickly fading. </div><div><br /></div><div>I have begun to loathe the fact that we <em>chose</em> to move out to the middle of nowhere. It's an amazing place, but so very far away from all the people who could cheer me up and make me feel loved and needed. I wish I were anywhere but here.</div><div><br /></div><div>Sadly, I will remain in my lonely little world, for any time I try to reach out- I am pushed away. Oddly enough, the thought of venturing out on my own is absolutely terrifying. </div>Corthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08194555939051524751noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920231489821268910.post-88034278687193839802009-05-22T10:39:00.000-04:002009-05-25T21:39:45.324-04:00Where did it go?<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/Sha_ztvWjeI/AAAAAAAAAAk/T-DinKsv7eU/s1600-h/137.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5338665303466741218" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/Sha_ztvWjeI/AAAAAAAAAAk/T-DinKsv7eU/s320/137.JPG" border="0" /></a><br /><div>I've noticed in the past few weeks/months that there seems to be something happening in my relationship. Nothing bad, but nothing good at the same time. After thinking about it for a long while, I've come to the conclusion that we've lost that 'falling-in-love' feeling. </div><div><br /> </div><div>No, we're not breaking up, we've just become comfortable or settled as some might call it. I don't like it one bit. I miss the butterflies and the daydreams, the passion and the sleepless nights ;-) and the 'I love yous' that you can't seem to hear enough of. Where did it go? And when did it decide to leave? I wasn't given due notice and never received a good-bye...</div><div><br /></div><div>I understand that some people live their entire lives being able to feel this way. Like everyday is the first time they've figured out they are in love...I want it to come back. I <span class="blsp-spelling-corrected" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">wasn't</span> finished feeling that way yet. </div><div></div><br /><div>I wake up everyday thinking it's going to come back, we'll start to get all touchy-<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">feely</span> again, and wink at each other with every passing glance. But instead, I go to sleep feeling neglected and taken advantage of. This isn't how I remember it being in the beginning. I remember having someone stand beside me and help prepare supper. Sitting down and talking to each other. I remember actually going out on the weekends because we'd actually made plans. </div><div><br /> </div><div>So, how do you get it to come back? Is it even possible to get back? Maybe I need to try a little harder. Maybe we need to talk about it. I can't imagine spending the next 50+ years feeling like this. It's a miserable feeling and I'm not <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">diggin</span>' it.</div><br /><div></div>Corthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08194555939051524751noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920231489821268910.post-83314059667925894912009-05-19T06:21:00.000-04:002009-05-19T06:38:04.226-04:00So Tired......<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/ShKL632Y69I/AAAAAAAAAAc/IQOuWdiFLH4/s1600-h/080.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5337482351928208338" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/ShKL632Y69I/AAAAAAAAAAc/IQOuWdiFLH4/s320/080.JPG" border="0" /></a><br /><div>It's funny how your body reacts when you've had little or no sleep for several days. Normally, I go to bed at a decent time and get a fairly good amount of sleep. The last 2 days, however, I've been trying to do as much as I can (as quickly as I can) to help get my case before the judge. I'm in the middle of an ugly custody war and the saddest part about it -is that the divorce was granted over 3 years ago. I'm trying to modify certain things and it's taking it's toll on me. </div><br /><div></div><br /><div>For instance, in the past 48 hours, I have had a total of 6 hours of sleep. No kidding. My body is acting as if I have the flu right now. I can't recall a period of time (other than when I was pregnant with my daughter) that I ever felt so sick to my stomach. It's physically hard to stand up straight...my body wants me to hunch and it's even trying to get me to sit down every few minutes.</div><br /><div></div><br /><div>This isn't going to work so well for me. It's 6:30 in the morning and I'm already half an hour into a very busy day. There's no time to sit down and fight off a nap and most certainly no time to take a nap, period. Hopefully I'll make it through the day without passing out or throwing up. </div><br /><div></div><br /><div>I'm pretty sure there's a chance I'll be skipping supper tonight and heading straight for bed. </div>Corthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08194555939051524751noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2920231489821268910.post-18309638921032470762009-05-17T22:51:00.000-04:002009-05-17T23:01:46.308-04:00*tap* *tap* Is this thing on?<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/ShDPj2q9dyI/AAAAAAAAAAM/fM75ysOeI50/s1600-h/341.JPG"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5336993773312112418" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_DPgZOLoD86E/ShDPj2q9dyI/AAAAAAAAAAM/fM75ysOeI50/s320/341.JPG" border="0" /></a><br /><div>Ok, I decided to go for it and just start one....it's been coming for a while now. There are so many random things I keep locked away in my brain and I'm quickly running out of room :-) I'm not sure how often I'll post (I'm pretty forgetful) but I <em>intend</em> to add to it daily. Wish me luck!</div>Corthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08194555939051524751noreply@blogger.com0